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No, this all stops with the parents, it is after all the parents that we see ranting and raving about how their child is fat, how their child is sending naked pictures of themselves to others, how the parents are complaining that their childrent are watching porn or dabling in drugs and if I can go so far that their kids are in knife crime. It is the parents responsibility to ensure that their children are supervised untill they are of legal age themselves. I can sit in my hobby room and watch the first stages of parental 'supervision' starting to deteriate as the parents take their children to school. Main roads crossed while the mother has her nose stuck to the mobile phone, walking down the middle of the side road. Now if I went out and reminded that parent of their responsibility to her young children, It would be me that gets told to 'k off in no uncertain terms.Though you make a valid point, namely that parents should keep an eye on what their children are doing, you’re talking of the small picture and ignoring the fact that there is a big picture as well.
If it was as simple as “Pay attention to what you’re doing” and “Take action yourself” then there would be no need for most laws at all, nor their enforcement. But if we go down that path as a society, we would end up back in about the 18th century, where if someone did you wrong you had to take them to court — even for things we now consider to naturally be a matter for the government to involve itself in, like murder. The government’s job in modern European society is to be responsible for others (Americans especially are bound to disagree with this statement, BTW) in many areas because it’s simply unrealistic to expect people to themselves take care of all things that affect them.
The question then is: what does and what does not fall under the government’s umbrella? Though I agree with you that people should be responsible for their own actions, the Internet often makes this very difficult. How can you be responsible for your own actions if you don’t know about things other parties are doing that do concern you?
".... the Internet often makes this very difficult. How can you be responsible for your own actions if you don’t know about things other parties are doing that do concern you?"
There is a very simple answer to this statement, What is published on the internet is the responsibility of the companies like Google etc to supervise it, or be made aware of the content that someone objects to. Now we all know there is porn freely available and there are also other topics and subjects freely available - so where do we as responsible people stop complaining do we stop at using a rubber knife to spread butter on our bread, because some snowflake declares that using a rubber knife turned her 6 year old into a knife crazed zombie.
No the buck stops with the parent, always used to stop with the parent who if caught you doing something you were not supposed to be doing introduced you to the flat of their hand. Then the do-gooders and the snowflakes decided to get involved and now you are at the cross roads of who actually rules in your home, is it the parent, is it the snowflake or is it the child. And all this silly cr4p started with some edited expletive who thought it would be great to divorce himself from his parents because they laid down the law at what time he should arrive home. This has now extended to the internet, and where so called parents once they discover what little Johnny or Mary have been up to or there is a knock on the door or at worst the child goes missing, then when the dust settles it is the parent that was too bone idle to get of their mobile phone and supervise what their child is actually doing on the internet. And if the parent has the gumption to then act by taking away the computer and the childs entry into the internet that makes some valid points - the child is prevented for viewing what they should not, taking part in actions they should not, and the parent demonstrating their authority and parental control. This is another buzz word that seems to only apply to others 'Parental Control', it is not up to me to take charge of others children, it is the responsibility of the parent of that child to hold that responsibility and demonstrate that the child is under control at all times, just have a look at turning out time at school or in the supermarket. Parental control starts in the home, is established in the home, and if you say to a child they are not to do something then that is what the child has to understand and that includes the internet. Were it my choice no child would be allowed near a computer, mobile phone or tablet until they were at least 14, they have a computer in between their ears that craves knowledge, and that knowledge stems from reading and working out problems for themselves. Take away the electronic gizmos which lead to the internet and most kids are illiterate, they cannot even do the most basic of math unless they can access a computer. And it is in the starvation of the brain that leads to the wrong expoloration of the internet and the parents claiming that SOMEBODY ahould do something about it, well that somebody is the parent and there is an off button on all electrical devices. Parental control.
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